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HIGH SELF-ESTEEM
Written by Andrey Kihtenko, 10a

  There are many problems in relationships and their solutions. I think the most important problem is the exaggerated high self-esteem of your partner. I will try to tell about this problem on the example of a girl with too high self-esteem.

She loves to dramatize everything. Such a girl cannot live a day without hysteria. In normal and calm relationships she becomes bored. She is not interested in living like all typical lovers; she begins to look for reasons to argue about something.

She thinks she is the best. She behaves terribly with strangers or with service staff. It is one of her most striking qualities in a girl. She thinks that you must satisfy her whims. The more time passes, the worse it will become. Whims will be daily, and she will demand a lot. As a result, you have to deal with the forever unsatisfied girl and scandals. Such girls do not know the word "we". They only know the "Me".

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What to Do If You Like a Girl But She Doesn’t
Written by Illa Khilko, 10c

  As we go through life, we develop a variety of relationships. One of them is the relationship of a guy with a girl. It’s good if the feelings of sympathy are mutual, but it also happens that the guy has a feeling of sympathy for the girl, but she doesn’t.

So what to do if you feel sympathy for the girl, but she does not feel any for you? In such situation, first of all, you must become her friend. It is necessary to show interest in the hobbies of the girl, even if they are not interesting to you. You should always help the girl, if she needs it. It’s worth making compliments. You need to spend time with her, for example, go for a walk, to begin with, in company with other friends. Of course, you have to take care of yourself.

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Friendship

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How to Continue Trusting Friends If You Were Betrayed Once?
Written by Alex Bobrova, 11c

  All people are different. Some of us retain/preserve childish naivety and openness for the whole life, some remain wary in communication, and there can also be ones who prefer not to trust anyone. Of course, everybody wants to save their inner world and that`s right. But don`t shut yourself from everyone, especially if you have gone through betrayal. It might seem hard to learn to trust people again, but if you want to feel wanted and loved again, you must step over yourself. To begin with let`s try to understand what trust means. Trust is a positive relationship between people, that allows us to stay sure in someone`s honesty, decency, integrity and loyalty. Trust can be blind or reasonable. Reasonable trust does not occur at once, for example, in such cases, when you are just like somebody and want to trust him, it matures slowly. Such trust must be earned by one’s actions, one’s devotion for a certain time and sometimes by sacrifices. Reasonable trust is the kind of trust you must bring up in yourself to have healthy relationship.

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Problems of Internet Friends
Written by Lisa Streseva, 10c

  I think every person has friends. Maybe only one, or maybe more than ten, but all people have friends. But there are people, who are very shy so they have problems with meeting new people. I'm a person like this, so I hardly meet new people. But I have many Internet friends and I want to tell about cons and pros heaving Internet friends.

Let's start with pros. As for me, to make friends on the Internet is much easier for people like me, who are very shy. You don’t know what a person looks like, so you won't have any stereotypes about nationality, skin color, or something like this. You don’t have to even meet in real life this person, so there won't be eye contact or anything embarrassing like this. Also you can find friends according to your interests and hobbies so you will have themes for speaking. The last, but not that least, you can meet people all over the world.

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What Is The Difference Between Friendship In 1st And 10th Forms?
Written by Alina Kovalenko,10c

  Each person once had a REAL friendship in life, which was not connected with material prosperity, popularity, for mercenary purposes... Everyone probably has thought about what real friendship is and how to distinguish it from “deceitful”? So, let's start with what friendship is for each of us? Friendship is a close relationship based on mutual trust, affection, common interests.

Over the years, our emotions /life outlook/interests/priorities have been changing. Throughout the school life we have been friends with different people. So… how does our friendship change in 1st grade and in 10th? This question seems complicated to me, because each person has had their own experience in relationships. Today I will talk about my experience and my thoughts. First of all, friendship is not an easy thing for me, because only a true friend can hold you back, listen to, understand, laugh at your jokes, and know all your secrets and amorousness ...

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Friendship

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How to Keep Friendship Going?
Written by Anastasia Kuprievich, 10c

  Like any other relationship, friendship takes time and effort. If it seems to you that your relationship with a friend has cooled or you want to strengthen friendships, there are ways to help you with this. If you regularly communicate and support your friends, you can overcome the conflicts that may arise, as well as maintain friendly relations for many years.

Friendship is, first of all, the similarity of views and thoughts, feelings and needs of two people. A friend must be sincere in his feelings, there is no place for hypocrisy. Between friends there is no envy and rivalry. Only a true friend will rejoice for another as well as for himself. Often, some people make the mistake of calling their friends and acquaintances friends. As you know, many friends do not exist. In a difficult situation, only real friends will help you.

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Why Does Friendship End?
Written by Ani Kupradze,10c

  People have been trying to define the word friendship for a long time. Friendship is, first of all, the similarity of views and thoughts.

Between friends there is no place for envy and rivalry. Only a true friend will rejoice for another as well as for himself. But friendship is a fragile crystal bowl. It must be protected from careless insulting words, from outbursts of irritation and anger.

It is important to remember that friendship can end, and you need to be able to let go of old friends. Any relationship ends, and friendship is no exception. It is necessary to internally release classmates with whom our interests no longer coincide, a friend with whom life has divorced us. Mentally say to a former friend: “Thank you. Our friendship was pleasant, but our paths diverged. For all the time that we were friends, thank you. All that I gave you, I gave sincerely. Thank you. Goodbye".

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Friendship
Written by Larisa Sharapova, 10a

  Friendship… Friendship is the work of two or more people who are dear to one another. Work isn’t in the literal sense of the meaning, work implies somebody putting a part of themselves, a part of their heart, work for trust, understanding…

Friendship can be seen from two sides. On the one hand, some people consider friendship something that isn’t really there. If you just laugh, have fun in your free time, chat nicely… but don’t share any feeling or problems with each other than this isn’t friendship, it’s just communication, and you are not friends, but just comrades (or good acquaintances) who have a good time. Friendship can also be checked by “a fair weather friendship”. This means that if you have problems or you feel that your psychological state is in trouble, you want to share it with your close person (best friend), and he or she doesn’t want to listen to you, then make the conclusion, this isn’t your friend. For example, I can call very few people friends, because not everyone can listen and understand what’s in your soul, why you have tears in your eyes, what’s wrong with you ... Even if you can tell someone, not everyone can understand you.

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Trust and Support between Parents and Adolescents
Written by Angelina Dikina, 10a

  Relationships are an integral part of any person’s life, but family relationships are considered to be the most important relationships. Of course, any relationship, both love and family, cannot exist without trust. Trust is the most valuable thing that is hard to earn and return. But what if parents and their children do not have a trusting relationship?

In the 21st century, adolescents are uncontrollable machines that want to express themselves; they are attracted by inaccessibility and unknown. But all their rash actions lead to many errors that they try to solve on their own, thereby creating more and more new problems. Probably all teenagers are afraid of the anger of their parents, and therefore accumulate life experience from their mistakes. But why not just tolerate being read morals and instead get practical advice of those who went through all these rough patches and avoid the problems that teenagers impulsively solve? Of course, like most teenagers, I did not trust my mother, but I trusted my friends until something happened. Friends turned out to be the worst enemies, having betrayed me they left with my secrets. And at that moment I had no one to turn to except my mother. And of course, every day she saved me from depression and she alone replaced several friends at once. She taught me that it’s not worth baring your soul and how to separate dozens of fleeting acquaintances from real friends. It is hard to imagine what I could turn into if I had neither support from my mother nor support from friends.

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Has the Choice Been Already Made For You?
Written by Kate Korolenko, 10a

  Family are the closest and dearest people who love you with unconditional love. They will always support and you can always rely on them. But what if you and your family find yourselves on opposing sides on such an important issue as choosing a career?

  It often happens that parents don’t listen to or encourage their children’s choice. For example, a child is told from the very beginning, “You’ll be a doctor like your father and grandfather.” They buy him the game Operation, a microscope, impose a love for chemistry and biology while the child goes to the drama club and enjoys it, dreaming of becoming an actor. There are quarrels, parents’ denial to accept their child’s dreams. What should a teenager do in such a situation? You need to let your parents see how good you are in a thing that you like.